Yesterday officially marked one month that we have all been home together. It has been a L-O-N-G month. There have been so many changes for all of us. None of us have had as many changes as Nazeret; her whole world changed in the blink of a 17 hour flight.
That's right, we started our trip home with a 17 hour flight. Nazeret LOVED the take off (and had all the passengers on a 777 cheering), made a trip to the potty every hour, and HATED her seatbelt...and ALL the food. We landed in DC and Nazeret became a US citizen right there in the airport. We then waited 9 hours to get on our plane to Dallas, so that we could sit on the runway for almost 2 hours waiting for take-off. We finally made it home after 30+ hours of travel.
We got home in the middle of the night, so we didn't get to see Nazeret's reaction to her new home, but she did try on ALL the clothes in her closet before going to bed. Between jet lag and whatever upper respiratory infection I picked up, it was a rough first week. I honestly don't remember a lot, but I do remember the second week. This would be the week that I didn't recognize my newest child. This was the week of HUGE adjustments. This was the week that I lost 10lbs, a lot of sleep, and wondered how I was going to ever survive my new life. This was the week that God showed up in a HUGE way and reminded me that HE was going to get us all through the adjustments. God brought new people into my life who gave me such encouragement and He brought out old friends who met our needs when we were just getting through each day. God is good and His mercy is new every day. We have all grown and changed so much this month, but Nazeret has changed the most.
NAZERET, you are "a so silly girl"! You are so outgoing and funny! You love people and you have already claimed some of our closest friends and family as "yours". I have been amazed by how much you have learned. You are a very smart girl.
Somehow, we kept you from knowing we had a pool the first week we were home. (I think you were just too tired to care.) That second week you were in the pool. Swimming lessons were a must your third week home and now you swim like you have been doing it your whole life.
Another funny thing about you is your sense of direction. You are 7 years old and you have been drawing a mental map of our little town. You already know the locations of home, church, Mommy's work, the doctor, and the best place to get ice cream.
We have come through our first month (I believe it is the toughest). I am looking forward to the steps we will take together next month as we prepare for you to start school! I love you and I thank God everyday that He has allowed us to be your family.
I can so relate Traci! I cannot tell you how many times I said those first two weeks home, What have we done!!??" Things are beginning to level off now and take on a whole new normal. We will hit the 1 month home on Sunday...Thank goodness that first month is behind us! :)
ReplyDeleteI can't believe that we haven't met Nazeret yet but I know how incredibly busy you guys have been & so have we! There's plenty of time to meet her & I can't wait! We love you guys & know that God's hand is in all of this. You & your entire family are just an amazing example of what we are all suppose to do - sharing His love! Take care of yourself my dear, sweet friend!
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